How to get rid of loneliness? Decisions based on analysis

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2018-03-22 14:58:08

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The fact that loneliness is not good for man, tells us the Lord himself in the book of Genesis. We are created to be in the company of his kind. But not always it turns out that needs communication and interaction are met exactly as each person would like. And then comes a dark and heavy feeling-a feeling of loneliness. It can be of varying severity and often a burden not only confined and proud. Even outgoing people are often experiencing inner emptiness. Therefore, the question “How to get rid of loneliness?” very popular.

In this problem it is necessary to distinguish several components.

First, The actual degree of loneliness. Do not around you people? Because you're not in solitary confinement. Most of the people around us very much. There are cases in between –living in a small town, village or very unsociable from a big city. The chances of meeting a friend and associate because of a narrow circle of friends decreases sharply. But even in this case, the problem can be solved. How to get rid of loneliness, caused by objective reasons? The Newspapers publish ads people who are looking for pen pals. It's possible you'll be able to find deep and interesting interlocutor in this way, because the letter to Express ideas much easier. Again, there are Dating sites, where a vast array explicitly "not your" people are certainly compatible with you. No need to dwell on those who are already in your life, find people who can help you to take another look at yourself.

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Secondly, you need to pay attention to Private property Character. They stand between us and our happiness in the fellowship. How to get rid of loneliness and explain their own personal characteristics? First of all, to perform with pen in hand, what's stopping you to be a friend. Note – not to have a friend, and to be a good friend yourself. Most often the case in a certain pessimism in regard to people. The property is causes difficulty not only in modern man. Even Alexander Dumas, when he described the Athos, said that the latter was a pessimist in the matters which concerned the people. It was nice to find common features with the noble musketeer, but do not be fascinated – this quality has made him unlucky in his personal life. Don't let this property to spoil your life. When you start to communicate, mentally imagine that soon you will become a good friend to your new friend. Imagine how you will be together having a good time. It will be a kind of programming of the psyche, as a result, your friend will unconsciously treat you differently. It is not a magical rite,but simply a creation of the peculiar pattern of relationship to reality, with the result that we begin to behave in new ways, getting unexpected results.

Third, you need To create a database of interests. This means that you must be prepared for future Dating and friendship. Perhaps you will soon come across the ideal for psychological type of the person. But here's the problem - talk to him may be about. So remember at least three areas of knowledge that interest you, and begin to devote at least 2 hours a day studying subjects of their interest. It will entertain you, and you will forget about its concern about the question “How to get rid of feelings of loneliness”. And when you become aware of the person you want to talk very much. And there's the base for friendship. Of course, will have to work, but a good friendship idlers never win. All relationships require work.

How to get rid of loneliness? Look for new people, to change ourselves, to become interesting. Loneliness means more free time – is that so bad?






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