As a man to stop he left

Unpleasant life situation – the beloved one out of love and wants to leave. Even harder if he leaves a family where there are children. Every second woman in this period of his life is trying to fight for a loved one, to stay with her. Many, however, operate at the level of instincts, not really knowing how to do it, as a man to keep. They start to behave too emotionally, to a course there are the screams, scandals, threats, and entreaties. However, these straightforward methods usually do not have a positive effect. Need a more flexible and meaningful methods.

How to keep a man: what not to do

The Separation and care – this is the last stage of the relationship. As a man to keep from such a decisive "stroke of the pen", each woman chooses their own, based on the specific situation. Versions of "complicating" or "facilitate" the circumstances can be as much as: children, General business, established way of life, comfort, on the one hand, and the mistress, children "on the side", fatigue from each other, etc.

In order to breakup, it never came, you need to think in advance how to keep the man she loved beside her long and hard. So this is going to work every day of your relationship, because, as you know, in the Union much depends on the woman. From how she will behave, what will make what will be personality, will leave her man or not. Definitely no need to be pushy, annoying, constantly talking about his love and ask him to say the same thing. This behavior cements the relationship, and Vice versa, like rust, slowly undermines and destroys them. Of course, boys are different, and someone like this style, but they – obviously in the minority.

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What to do and how to keep a man

So he was always with you so don't even think to look in the other direction, you need to constantly work on ourselves and stay in good shape. In other words, never relax. It applies to everything: clothes, shapes, moods, facial expressions, smile, gait. You must become confident, self-sufficient and full-fledged personality, which, if anything, and without it perfectly live. Men often say that they do not like too independent ladies. In fact, however, these women they just love, so become passionate, purposeful and modern girl, in which, besides him, there are many other interesting things. 

Live a full life, do Hobbies, socialize with friends, go on courses and trainings, flirt with other young people. Believe me, such women do not leave any normal man.

After glancing in the direction of others, they start when they do gets boring when the girl he was not surprised and not delighted. The hunter instinct has not been canceled, so I will have to try to constantly surprise and intrigue her. That part of the relationship lies on the shoulders of women and, if they fail, the Union is doomed.

So, can I keep a man? Obviously, Yes, but not when it is already “suitcase”. If the decision is made, it often remains unchanged. “Hold” means to bring to a gathering of things, not to share him with another, not to beg for attention and words of love. Real women (clever, cunning, calculating little) who decided to build a relationship with a specific person, should have its own strategy how to do it. This plan is thought out in advance, even at the initial stage. Emotions – good, but they are not eternal and they can not hold a strong Union. To keep a man under the power of a true woman whose smart enough to get a feel for what he wants, what he wants from her relationship. Based on this, it needs to change, to be interesting, be emotionally flexible, exciting and incomprehensible. Then he will not be able to tell what it is – “book”, which wants to close and take another.