A strong person – what it should be?

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One day, a huge aggressive great said slender bespectacled: “Yes, I can swallow you entirely!”. What a strong spirit the man coolly replied: “In this case, your stomach will be more brains than in the head”. In this anecdote in its entirety reveals the quality of a strong personality. It doesn't have to be physically in-shape fighter. Of course, “strong muscles don't spoil the IQ”, but without them it is possible to emerge victorious from many of life's troubles. The first sign of strength is self-confidence. Not pride, turning into foolish boasting and sabre-rattling, it is faith in himself as a person.

This is weak need to prove to everyone how strong he is and brave. Due to the humiliation of others, this type tries to rise in his own eyes and the opinions of others, and often tinned throat trying to prove his innocence. A strong person is a person “yourself”. This does not mean that he is – an egoist or egotist. He just doesn't live ‘window dressing”. He already knows what is. His power and life power radiate confidence, and these waves of energy capture the surrounding, even if he is silent. He knows exactly what he wants and goes to his goal, despite the obstacles. And this is his next quality.

The Strong man is not afraid of failures. Naturally, he tries to avoid them – where can. Sometimes he makes mistakes. Sometimes he suffers fiasco. But he always knows how to rise after falling and has the courage to follow on. Many people are deeply experiencing their failures: they train dragging behind them throughout life's journey. We are afraid to meet a girl because we still rudely refused. This case is a pain sitting in the heart, returning us to the past, poisoning the present and leaving the future. The person with the inner fortress, is over the failure, it follows the target and is in the future, not dwell on the past.

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A Strong man - a rationalist. He's not wearing rosy glasses, but clearly knows his positive and negative qualities. All their success he attributes happily the circumstances, and the failure of his own. However, the guilt such a person recognizes speculative, not emotionally, not begins to engage in self-flagellation, and analyzes the situation, identifies where he made a mistake and learns a lesson for the future. Excessive self-deprecation, and tearful self-pity-a waste of time and effort for such people. They simply go to their goals. He also did not begin publicly to boast of their success – better praise other than the praises of ourselves.

A Strong man does not compare himself with others. His inner world he knows all too well. He never admits that he may be worse than others – in General, of course, but not for some qualities. On the other, he judges not only what they want about themselves to say to him go to show. He respects every person and its inner world is ready to listen to advice, but the final opinion rests with him. He is the architect of his own fate. A man goes to the goal safely and confidently, and from adverse circumstances and setbacks he did not give up.

A Strong man does not give in to manipulation. He keeps his emotions under control. Such a person all the time as if asking himself: and whether I do? what is the basis of my sympathy or antipathy to a particular person? do not anger that drives me? Such people are open to others – they are ready to forgive, easy to forget grudges. Being strong, they tend to support the weak. And this stability, dignity tune in a positive way to others. To strong stretch, implicitly considering it a leading. A natural-born leader, unlike authoritarian upstarts do not need the identify of worship, flattery and the humiliation of others – he knows what it takes.


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